K-12 Sex Education Lessons

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Are you wanting to learn more about sexuality? Are you having a hard time talking to your child about their changing body? Perhaps you feel robbed of the sex education you feel like you should have gotten in school. Or maybe you want to explore a different side of sexuality and become educated on different topics.

I teach all ages from 5-years-old to adult level. There’s always something that can be learned. All my workshops and lessons are taught in a comprehensive, pleasure-based, consensual model. What does that mean? It means you won’t find an abstinence-only stance in my educational approach.

According to Planned Parenthood, pleasure-based education, “normalizes the idea of giving and receiving pleasure not just in sexual activity, but in relationships as a whole. When sex education is pleasure-based, students develop healthier relationships both with themselves and their partner, increasing their overall life satisfaction and happiness.” Learn more about the benefits of pleasure-based education here.

I use anatomically correct, diverse models and diagrams. Lessons can take place in a venue, in your home, educational setting, virtually, or wherever else you’d like to learn! Many of my school age students' parents have me come to their homes for a weekly/biweekly 1.5 hour lesson or a monthly 3-hour lesson. We will work together to figure out what works best with your school schedule.

Lessons include fun creative-based activities including:

  • cookie baking and decorating,

  • custom workbooks and coloring sheets,

  • games and obstacle courses,

  • art-making, model making, sculpting

  • virtual classrooms,

  • movies, reading, and more.

    Take the awkward out of sex education and let’s make it fun and creative!


Sample Curriculums

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Sex ed basics: level 1 - Anatomy & Response Cycles

This curriculum is all about the body and how our genitals and reproductive systems develop. At the end of the course, you will know all about human reproductive systems and genitalia, body development, puberty, and arousal. Topics can include:

  • Male, female, intersex, and trans genitalia and chest anatomy

  • Puberty Growth and Development

  • Journey of the sperm to the egg

  • Childbirth Education

  • Arousal and response cycles (How your body responds to stimulation) and arousal non-concordance (how our bodies and mind can disconnect)

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Sex Ed basics: Level 2 - Cultivating Sexual Wellness

This curriculum is aimed to help attendees learn about how to develop and maintain healthy sexual wellness. Topics will include:

  • pleasure cultivation

  • consent

  • healthy communication and intimacy

  • disclosure

  • prevention (contraception & birth control)

  • non-exploitation

  • sexual identity/orientation

  • gender vs sex

  • trans/nb health

  • sexual health practitioners and doctors

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Let’s Talk About Consent

Consent is everywhere in our lives. Its within our sexuality, personal boundaries, everyday interactions, and more. Most of us have learned that “No means No,” but consent goes further than that. This lesson offers the opportunity to explore all aspects of consent, how to talk about consent, and how to move beyond the simple “yes” and “no.” This is useful for going about your daily life, entering new relationships, managing employees, interacting with superiors, and so many other interactions.
You will learn about the foundations of consent:

  • Capacity

  • Informed Consent

  • Agreement/Boundary Setting

  • Discovery & Autonomy

  • What to do when consent is violated

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Whats Happening to My Body?

This workshop is aimed at children going through puberty and can be customized depending on content preferences and time constraints. Topics tend to center around puberty and how to establish healthy sexual wellness from an early age. This will be taught from a pleasure-based, consensual model. It is preferred that children have some friends with them in the workshop as it will help normalize the experience.

Topics can include:

  • puberty & bodily changes

  • menstruation

  • anatomy & response cycles

  • birth control & contraception

  • masturbation & fantasy

  • consent & communication basics

  • pregnancy & fetal development

  • developing sexual wellness

  • gender & orientation

  • dating relationships

  • STD/STIs & HIV/AIDS

  • pleasure

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Parent Coaching

Need help talking about sex to your children? Get together a group of your parent friends and let’s talk about how to start conversations about sex with your children. These conversations can start as early as the toddler years with basics like consent (i.e. hugs, personal space) and correct names for their body parts. This can be done individually as well.

Topics can include:

  • puberty & bodily changes

  • menstruation

  • anatomy & response cycles

  • birth control & contraception

  • masturbation & fantasy

  • consent & communication basics

  • pregnancy & fetal development

  • developing sexual wellness

  • gender & orientation

  • dating relationships

  • STD/STIs & HIV/AIDS

  • pleasure

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